Do you find yourself wondering why most of your buddies have steady dates, yet you can barely secure a first date, let alone a second. Guys, if so, it's time to ask yourself a few GQ questions...
Do you... have a problem with eye contact?
Take your eyes off their body parts. They'll likely think you're out for one thing, or that you're just kind of creepy. Get a grip and get comfortable with eye contact, which creates a much better bond. Ask questions and be charming.
Do you... eat like a caveman?
Utensils are there for a reason -- so you can eat like a gentleman. Shoveling food into your mouth is not something you should subject your date to. It's a red flag that says you're a little short on self-awareness -- an important characteristic in a mate. Exhibit Sean Conary style.
Do you... trim your toenails?
Unkept toenails are a guaranteed huge turnoff. It means you don't take care of yourself, and valuing yourself is an important part of a healthy relationship. Plus, let's not forget the damage they can do to the other person's leg when you're snuggling up on the sofa watching movies. If your toenails are cutting holes in your socks trim them.
Do you... order "everything on the side" at a restaurant?
Do you order like a girl? Please don't. Because if your date has to be tortured by, "I'll have the Cobb salad, but no cheese, avocado, or bacon, and dressing on the side, and the pasta, but no oil please, and extra light on the pinenuts," your date may wonder what kind of demanding partner you could be. If you have dietary restrictions, do your best, just don't get into what will happen to your belly if you don't follow them. The reason your on the date is not the food but the connection to be made by you with your date. Not a connection with you and the food.
Do you... assume you're going to strike out?
The Secret said it once but we'll say it again: In a lot of ways, you manifest your own destiny. So, if you have lots of thoughts about being unlucky in love, you may be pushing people away in ways you may not even know. If you assume the worst of the world and yourself, spend a few minutes before your date making a mental list of why you're looking for a relationship and why you are an incredible a catch. Everyone Loves a Winner So be one, because you are a Lucky Guy!
Evolve, Be confident, Be a Gentleman and have a great time together...
Do you... have a problem with eye contact?
Take your eyes off their body parts. They'll likely think you're out for one thing, or that you're just kind of creepy. Get a grip and get comfortable with eye contact, which creates a much better bond. Ask questions and be charming.
Do you... eat like a caveman?
Utensils are there for a reason -- so you can eat like a gentleman. Shoveling food into your mouth is not something you should subject your date to. It's a red flag that says you're a little short on self-awareness -- an important characteristic in a mate. Exhibit Sean Conary style.
Do you... trim your toenails?
Unkept toenails are a guaranteed huge turnoff. It means you don't take care of yourself, and valuing yourself is an important part of a healthy relationship. Plus, let's not forget the damage they can do to the other person's leg when you're snuggling up on the sofa watching movies. If your toenails are cutting holes in your socks trim them.
Do you... order "everything on the side" at a restaurant?
Do you order like a girl? Please don't. Because if your date has to be tortured by, "I'll have the Cobb salad, but no cheese, avocado, or bacon, and dressing on the side, and the pasta, but no oil please, and extra light on the pinenuts," your date may wonder what kind of demanding partner you could be. If you have dietary restrictions, do your best, just don't get into what will happen to your belly if you don't follow them. The reason your on the date is not the food but the connection to be made by you with your date. Not a connection with you and the food.
Do you... assume you're going to strike out?
The Secret said it once but we'll say it again: In a lot of ways, you manifest your own destiny. So, if you have lots of thoughts about being unlucky in love, you may be pushing people away in ways you may not even know. If you assume the worst of the world and yourself, spend a few minutes before your date making a mental list of why you're looking for a relationship and why you are an incredible a catch. Everyone Loves a Winner So be one, because you are a Lucky Guy!
Evolve, Be confident, Be a Gentleman and have a great time together...
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- hapykap
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- added November 21, 2008
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lol that was pretty funny. :D we need to make an illustration of this story
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Do you... spend a lot of time researching and reading how to articles?
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LOL I like this one because it points the mirror back on you guys and says, "hey, maybe YOUR doing something wrong"!!
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Sally Security is WATCHING YOU. Everywhere!! pbtt
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Do you .... use your/you're incorrectly?
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The key word is SEDUCTION if you dont now how to seduce a woman you are lost.Remember life is a game and you need to know how to paly it.
Dont be a loser.-
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- Tayllerand
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