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Weird News - Pregnant Woman Gets Pregnant Again

A pregnant woman in Arkansas is reeling in shock after finding out she had conceived again, while still pregnant. Confusing... more

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Charges Dropped Because Bestiality Not Criminal

Animal cruelty charges have been dropped against a former New Jersey police officer because bestiality is not a crime in the state.

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Most Aussie online sex users are 'in relationship'

SYDNEY — More than half of all people who engaged in online sex were married or in a serious relationship, and some people... more

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Sexism in horror novels: the real monsters aren't the ones you think

The subject of sexism in genre fiction has been rampant of late. IMHO, it has always been there. It's just that now people... more

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Christian Wives set up Sex Wesbite

A website called Christian Nymphos has been set up by a group of wives to encourage young women to embrace intimacy in their... more

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Police seeks gay, lesbian and transgender applicants for Royal family detail

The Metropolitan Police is currently advertising vacancies in the Protection Command's Royalty Protection branch,... more

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Mika: 'Bisexual, if you need a term for me'

The BRIT Award-winning singer-songwriter Mika, whose sexuality has been the subject of rumour since he entered the public eye in... more

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Lesbian "Corrective Rape" Killer Gets Life

Eudy Simelane, a player for Banyana Banyana and prominent South African gay rights activist, was stabbed to death in April 2008.... more

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Some Perverted Statues

6 pictures of some very strange statues, you can decide if they are perverted or not .... Please add your own links if you know of... more

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Are female students 'a perk of the job'?

A vice-chancellor is encouraging lecturers to enjoy gazing at, even fantasizing about, attractive female students. We've... more

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Brits have sex with 2.8 million people

A new "Sex Degrees of Separation" calculator from Lloyds Pharmacy has worked out that the average Brit has "got it... more

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Do You Want To See My Cock?

The world of books is buzzing about a new publishing sensation to rival Dan Brown's The Lost Symbol, industry sources have... more

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The five stages of your life - an infographic

And yet again, it looks the most fun to be an infant.

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Cheating woman braves public shame for second chance

An unfaithful woman in the US has donned a handmade sign with "I cheated. Honk if I deserve a second chance" written on... more

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The 9 Signs You’re in a Toxic Friendship

1) Your friend is jealous of you. Jealousy is different than envy and the first can be very toxic for the relationship. Jealousy is: "I want what you have and I want you dead or disappeared." Envy is just: "I want what you have." A jealous friend will want to cut you out of her life because she really wants what you have and can’t stand to be around you anymore. An envious friend will want what you have, but will look to you as her inspiration or role model, and compete with you to get in the lead.

2) Your friend is a "doormat": It’s tiring to always be with someone who is so malleable.

3) Your friend wasn’t there for you. It’s sometimes hard to see if a friend is really a true pal until there is a life-changing moment in your life that requires the person’s support. This eye-opening event is called The Inciting Incident, which is when everything is going along fine, until wham! someone gets sick, or loses their job, or gets married or loses a loved one, and you find that the friend you thought would be by your side isn’t there for you at all. She doesn’t celebrate your good news nor does she help you in times of need. For some women it takes an "inciting incident" to finally notice that a friend is toxic.

4) Your friend is draining you: You feel you’re psychologically and emotionally giving all your energy to her and receiving nothing in return.

5) You don’t share the same values or the same world view: It’s a red flag that this isn’t the right friend for you if you don’t respect her for who she is. I interviewed a woman who wished her friend’s husband ill. It made the married woman realize that her friend’s behavior is nothing like her own.

6) You are using one another: This type of toxic relationship develops among socialites. You want to be friends with your neighbor because your children attend the same private school and you can coordinate a carpool. Will the friendship last? Maybe. Is there really a friendship between the mothers or is it just using? Is it worth turning this friendship into anything more than an agreement?

7) The relationship offers no return on investment: This is similar to a friend who is draining you – but this isn’t just an emotional give and take. If you are the one calling your friend to make plans and going out of your way to be with her, but she makes no attempt to go out of her way for you, then she’s not meeting you halfway.

8) Your friend is harming someone else or doing something illicit. Do you want to be associated with someone who is morally unjust? That’s a judgment call on your part.

9) Your friend burdens you with a secret: Your friend trusts you by sharing the details of her affair, but keeping the secret has weighed on you emotionally. You might want to keep your distance. If you’re too close to this woman and the secret is really impacting your life for the worse, it’s time to disengage yourself.

How to Disengage: If any of these signs describes one of your friendships, it’s likely to be a toxic relationship that’s burdensome to not just your sanity but hers as well. You could deliberately distance yourself and let the relationship fizzle into oblivion. If you would like to renegotiate the relationship and improve the friendship, have an honest conversation to reveal how you feel. You’ll risk losing this person, but the reward could be improving the quality of the friendship. Honesty is the best policy. Say: "I’m really upset you didn’t do this and this. And I needed you there to do this and this."

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